Episode 6

The Gift of Wandering

As a planner, it is difficult for me to wander without expectations. On a recent trip to Scandinavia, I found some amazing moments when I let my guard down and wandered.

It made me think about my single life and how it has allowed me to wander and find some paths I may not have otherwise found if I had gotten married and had children. I have discovered how to become a super aunt, a mentor, started a blog, a podcast, traveled and have met amazing people along the way.

You can read more and see photos from my wandering at: http://singlesoulcircle.com/blogposts/2019/9/11/wandering-can-lead-to-beautiful-things

Here are 10 ways you can take some little steps into a life of wandering:

  1. Pick a random book and read it
  2. Try a new recipe
  3. Talk to someone you don’t know at a networking event or attend a meetup
  4. Drive a different way to work and take notice of the new surroundings (safely, of course).
  5. Pick a weekend day, don’t plan anything and just do whatever feels good from moment to moment with no expectations for yourself
  6. Listen to a podcast that has nothing to do with your interests or profession
  7. Walk around a park (unless you live in Arizona, you may need to wait a month or two)
  8. Try on clothes that are not your typical style
  9. Go to the grocery store or florist and stop and smell the flowers
  10. Pick a random person from your contacts and actually give them a call (not a text)

If you need some ideas for podcasts to check out, I would recommend my classmates' podcasts:

https://impactlearning.simplecast.fm
https://talaterra.com
https://kristo.art/podcast
https://twelvescholars.com/podcast
https://blubrry.com/healthhats
https://alpacatribe.com/podcasts/
https://craftingsolutionstoconflict.simplecast.fm
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-good-humans-show/id1356575628
https://www.portfoliocareerpodcast.com/

 

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Heidi Frei

Heidi Frei is the host and producer of Auntecdotes. She has been an aunt for 24 years, and it is the joy of her life. She has nieces and nephews who range in age from 9 to 24. Heidi also hosts and produces the Single Soul Circle Podcast (www.singlesoulcircle.com).